Marriage in Newar culture is social union of two families. The parents arrange marriage for their sons and daughters. After the groom’s and bride’s families decision, the marriage is confirmed by giving 10 betel nuts along with fruits, sweets etc (known as lakha) from groom’s family to the bride.
Marriage ceremony is performed at the time scheduled by the astrologer. Swayamber, Honkegu, Chipa Theeke (symbol of sharing everything) is performed. Bride presents 10 betel nuts to all her family members. Brother of her mother, paju, takes on his back and carries her out of the house. He then presents her to the groom’s family.
The bride’s family visit the groom’s house on the 4th day , to see how the bride is being treated , which is known as Khwah soye (seeing the bride’s face).
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